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If My People: 2nd Edition

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I wonder—am I the only one who can sometimes find prayer exhausting? Often I’ll focus so much on a specific prayer burden, it can become mentally and physically draining.

Is there a “me too” in the room?

If you’re like me, our prayers aren’t an effort to control—we know God’s bigger than it all.

Rather, we’re praying because hope is birthed in prayer. Hope begets prayer, and prayer begets hope. And on and on and on…

Hope can be addictive, can’t it?

Since February’s the “month of love,” what do you say we bend the ear of God on behalf of those we love the most—our families. Spouses, significant others, children, god-children, in-laws, extended relatives—whatever “family” looks like in your world.

If you’re comfortable, please share the first name or initial of someone we can join you in prayer for this month.

So seemingly passive, yet—our greatest influence is prayer. Tweet This

P.S.) I made this printable with the names shared in our last If My People  post. I hope it’s helpful for us as we continue to lift these hearts to heaven and wait expectantly on God. Please feel free to download.

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  1. Becky Hastings says

    February 23, 2017 at 6:51 am

    Prayer can feel like another thing on our to-do list, at least for me. I try to remember that it is just conversation, a back and forth with a dear friend who knows me better than anyone. There’s no magic time or formula. No words better than another. God understands even our groans and our sighs. Such a gift remembering that He knows our hearts. He just loves when we bring them to Him.

    Exciting news in March 🙂 and that graphic was such a thoughtful simple way to encourage me to pray for each person!
    Becky Hastings recently posted…Finding Joy in a Simple CallingMy Profile

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    • Brenda says

      February 23, 2017 at 6:34 pm

      So glad there’s no magic formula because I’m not good at magic. I’d mess it up every time. 🙂 Thanks so much for sharing, Becky. ((hug))

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  2. Liz says

    February 23, 2017 at 6:55 am

    I’d love for you to pray for my friend Alicia who is having surgery tomorrow. She has two young girls and will be out of commission for a few weeks. Pray peace over her before the surgery, wisdom and skill for the doctors during, and a speedy recovery after as well as strength for her hubby while he tackles both sides of parenting for a while! Thanks for this great community here, Brenda! XO
    Liz recently posted…Word Nerd Wednesday – EschatologyMy Profile

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    • Brenda says

      February 23, 2017 at 6:36 pm

      Praying now for Alicia, Liz. Thanks for sharing. Will continue to pray for her recovery. ((xoxo))

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  3. Bev @ Walking Well With God says

    February 23, 2017 at 6:58 am

    Brenda,
    I would like to lift up Nicole in prayer…an unspoken one at this time, but desperately needed.
    Thanks all,
    Blessings,
    Bev xx
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    • Brenda says

      February 23, 2017 at 6:38 pm

      Prayers for Nicole, Bev. Thanks for sharing. ((xoxo))

      Reply
  4. Nicki Schroeder says

    February 23, 2017 at 8:33 am

    Prayer is the delivery room of hope….LOVE THIS! 🙂
    Nicki Schroeder recently posted…Love Your Valentine All Year LongMy Profile

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    • Brenda says

      February 23, 2017 at 6:40 pm

      Thanks for your sweet encouragement, Nicki. 🙂 ((hug))

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  5. Jill says

    February 23, 2017 at 8:36 am

    Thanks for this encouragement Brenda-hope does beget prayer and prayer begets hope! I’d love prayer for J & M, N and all of us who love them. Thanks for creating a community of support, hope and prayer!
    Jill recently posted…Soulful HabitsMy Profile

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    • Brenda says

      February 23, 2017 at 6:43 pm

      Adding J & M, N, and all of you who love them to the list, my friend. Praying now for them as well. Thank you for being a sweet part of this community. ((xoxo))

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  6. julie says

    February 23, 2017 at 8:57 am

    I’d like to have Vickie added to your list! She is dealing with a chronic illness and is going through a divorce also. She needs some encouragement!

    It’s comforting to know what prayer does. We can approach God whenever we need Him and know He listens.

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    • Brenda says

      February 23, 2017 at 6:44 pm

      Such a comfort, indeed! Adding Vickie to the list and praying for her now as well. Thank you for sharing, Julie. ((hug))

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  7. Sherry Stahl says

    February 23, 2017 at 9:00 am

    I’d love you to pray for my Brandon. He’ lost his way with Christ and I long to see him return.
    ~Sherry
    xoxo
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    • Brenda says

      February 23, 2017 at 6:46 pm

      ((Hug)) Praying with you for Brandon, Sherry. Thanks for sharing. ((xoxo))

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  8. Dawn Boyer says

    February 23, 2017 at 10:05 am

    I pray when I am walking or running because I can shut off my brain and my surroundings so that I can get personal with the Lord. Often those prayers, the ones I start with, don’t ever end up going in the direction I thought because i am choosing to let God dictate the prayer focus. I think that is when I start to give up on prayer, when I am dictating the focus…when I am telling God what to do…instead of letting the Holy Spirit lead my prayers.

    Please pray for my friend Jane who has decided to give up the battle against the cancer spreading in her body. Her love for the Lord is immensely inspirational and her joy through this journey has never wavered.
    Blessings,
    Dawn
    Dawn Boyer recently posted…When the brushstroke of grace is in your story…#GraceMoments Link UpMy Profile

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    • Brenda says

      February 23, 2017 at 6:49 pm

      “…letting the Holy Spirit lead my prayers.” — Beautiful, Dawn. — Prayers for Jane. I’m so sorry. ((Hug))

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  9. Michele Morin says

    February 23, 2017 at 10:29 am

    If hope is addictive, then it must also be contagious! Thanks for splashing some of it on me this morning!
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    • Brenda says

      February 23, 2017 at 6:50 pm

      Back at ya, friend. 🙂

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  10. Maree Dee says

    February 23, 2017 at 10:41 am

    Prayer is just so darn powerful in such a mysterious way. I like that we can be in prayer and not utter a single word, the Holy Spirit will do it for us. Yes, of course I would love prayer for my family. Thank you. Sending prayers up for you right now. Thank you for blessing all of us with you blog.

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    • Brenda says

      February 23, 2017 at 6:53 pm

      Such mysterious power! Agreed 🙂 — Thanks for your words of encouragement, Maree. Prayers for your family. ((hug))

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  11. Kristi Woods says

    February 23, 2017 at 10:48 am

    Love the graphic idea, Brenda. Seeing my loved one’s name on there brought a smile. I’ll be downloading and praying for those listed. Please add K to the prayer list this time around. Thanks so much!
    Kristi Woods recently posted…WORD17, Week 7My Profile

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    • Brenda says

      February 23, 2017 at 6:56 pm

      Adding K to the list, and praying now as well. Thanks for sharing, Kristi. ((hug))

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  12. Tyra says

    February 23, 2017 at 10:52 am

    Brenda,
    YES YES AND YES again to the call to pray. Since December I’ve had a tremendous burden to elevate my prayer life and God has faithfully shown me how to increase my faith in prayer, how to pray targeted specific prayer and how to pray prayers that expeditiously move heaven and earth. Thank you for this opportunity to join you in seeing His will be done here as in heaven. Pls add Donnie & Chrissy to the list. May the Father protect you under His Mighty Wing as you intercede for others.

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    • Brenda says

      February 23, 2017 at 6:58 pm

      Love your heart for prayer, Tyra. ((hug)) Adding Donnie and Chrissy to the list. Thank you for sharing. <3

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  13. Sue Donaldson says

    February 23, 2017 at 10:59 am

    K – for depression and family dysfunction. thanks!
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    • Brenda says

      February 23, 2017 at 6:59 pm

      Prayers for K, Sue. Thanks for sharing. ((hug))

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  14. Denise Crosby says

    February 23, 2017 at 12:33 pm

    Breanda, Thank you so much for this. I would love prayer for my son, Chris. He is lost and wondering.

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    • Brenda says

      February 23, 2017 at 7:00 pm

      Oh, friend. ((HUG)) Prayers for Chris. Thank you for sharing. xoxo

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  15. Ugochi says

    February 23, 2017 at 1:44 pm

    Hi Brenda, I would love prayers for my brothers; George, Charles and Obed to accept God’s salvation in Jesus Christ. My hope is strong and alive and I believe that as we agree in faith it is done. Thanks a lot for stirring some more hope in us today.
    Have a super blessed day!
    Love
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    • Brenda says

      February 23, 2017 at 7:03 pm

      Hi, Ugochi. Agreeing in faith with you and lifting up prayers for George, Charles and Obed. Adding them to the list. Thank you for sharing. ((hug))

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  16. Paris Renae says

    February 23, 2017 at 4:39 pm

    Brenda, loving this Thursday link-up of yours, it is fun. I’ll take prayers for those I love anywhere I can get them, please pray for JSF.

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    • Brenda says

      February 23, 2017 at 7:06 pm

      Thanks for your sweet words of encouragement, Paris. Adding JSF to the list, thank you for sharing. ((Hug))

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  17. Christine Duncan says

    February 23, 2017 at 11:10 pm

    Brenda, you’re doing such a unique thing here with your posts that encourage us to be deliberate as a community praying for our loved ones… it’s fantastic! I feel inspired every time I visit your site! Have an amazing weekend! Keep shining for Him!

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    • Brenda says

      February 27, 2017 at 11:51 am

      Christine, your sweet words are an encouragement to my heart. Thank you for sharing. You, too, are an inspiration to me, friend. 🙂 ((xoxo))

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  18. Betsy de Cruz says

    February 24, 2017 at 6:59 am

    Hi there, Brenda! I know what you mean about how sometimes prayer for a loved one can be like a burden on the mind. (your first paragraph 🙂 ) Just yesterday God spoke to me about that and helped me to trust and hand those people over to him. And interestingly I saw an answer to prayer in someone’s life after I did that. (I mean after I prayed and handed it over, instead of pray/worry/pray/worry)

    I’d love prayer for Grace, but please don’t put her name on a graphic? 🙂 Confidential.
    Betsy de Cruz recently posted…When You Need More Grace, More Hope, More JesusMy Profile

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    • Brenda says

      February 27, 2017 at 11:54 am

      Love that testimony of God’s faithfulness to answer prayer, Betsy. <3 Will be praying for Grace. (Without adding her name to a graphic.) Thanks for sharing. ((hug))

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  19. Kay says

    February 24, 2017 at 10:48 am

    Yes, indeed. That’s exactly what it is: hope is birthed in prayer. I love that!

    So sorry I missed the link up this week. I was busy with my book release parties all day. It was a blast! But exhausting. What a blessing. I will be joining you gals again next week, though. I love the community you’ve built here!!!

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    • Brenda says

      February 27, 2017 at 11:56 am

      How exciting, Kay. I finally had a chance to sit down and start your book this weekend–on chapter four and enjoying it. 🙂 Look forward to seeing you again next week. 🙂 ((hug))

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  20. Lux G. says

    March 1, 2017 at 8:38 pm

    We so need something like this.
    Let’s spread hope and not hate.

    Reply

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